I was so busy with the routine, mundane, unhappy life that I didn't listen. Thus, this feeling gnawed at me until I was pushed to move. Pushed to make a new choice, one that was better for me. It wasn't a selfish choice at all because looking back everyone that was affected by my choice grew and become happier. So don't be afraid to make a new and different choice because of how it will effect someone else. That is the worst thing to do. I know because that was my excuse for a long time. I've lived both choices and can tell you that the ones you think would suffer or not understand, well they actually don't suffer and they do understand. Don't make someone else your scapegoat for not changing your unhappiness. Life shouldn't be unhappy or settling.