When one sees their challenge as a lesson, from a step or two back, from a place of growth, understanding and love, it creates what you see as something you can't move past to something that you can. When you are so in the face, we should say, of your problem, that is all you see. How can you see more? How can you see the step that moves you past it when all that is, is in your face, engulfing you with every emotion, every thought?