The journey of self-discovery and change is complex. Stepping into the unknown often means confronting fear, desperation, and pain. It's a process of meeting different aspects of ourselves—some challenging, others empowering and liberating. We may talk about the abundance and joys that come with change, but doubts and worries also arise. Transitioning from old beliefs isn't as simple as flicking a switch. These beliefs are deeply ingrained, sometimes from past lives, and rooted in our subconscious like a computer program.
Change can happen abruptly, uprooting our lives in unexpected ways. Other times, it's a gradual process of chipping away at old patterns. Asking ourselves inward questions empowers us to challenge these deep-seated beliefs and programs. It's like tending a garden: gently digging around the roots to understand their support system.
We often cling to familiar stories and behaviors because they feel safe, even though they may no longer serve us. Real change comes from within, not from external sources. Crystals, for example, don't necessarily hand us anything but they support us in our own process of creation.
I once agreed with my second husband to show up with our respective wounds—mine in my vulnerability, his in his anger. We were stuck in dysfunction until I realized I needed to change my approach. It wasn't easy, but it was worth it.
Living a life free from pain and heaviness is worth the effort. It takes courage to look inward, but you already have that courage within you. There's a deeper why driving you, a desire for something more. When you can step back and examine all the desires and possibilities laid out before you, it opens up new perspectives.
Many of us live in a mindset of lack, feeling unimportant or as if there is never enough. But even a small shift in perspective can create profound change. By letting go of the need to control and focusing less on what's lacking, we allow space for transformation. It's like loosening your grip on a pole that wants to move—when you release, it can start to sway, allowing for a higher force to work with you.
Ultimately, it's about trusting yourself and the process of life's unfolding.
If you resonate with the idea of embracing change and transforming your life, I invite you to book a session with me where we'll explore these concepts further. Together, we can embark on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment. You can email me here and reserve your spot today. Let's create a life filled with abundance and joy, one step at a time.
With love,
Susan